“Hold Your Kids Tight”: A Father’s Final Goodbye That Shook a Nation

The quiet town of Tumbler Ridge has been left shattered by heartbreak after a tragic school shooting claimed the life of 12-year-old Kylie Smith. What should have been an ordinary morning — backpacks zipped, quick goodbyes exchanged, siblings walking side by side — turned into a nightmare no parent should ever have to endure.
Kylie’s father says he watched his daughter walk into school for the very last time, her brother Ethan Smith just steps away from her. It was a simple, everyday moment. A glance. A wave. A routine that felt guaranteed. Hours later, everything changed.
Ethan survived by hiding inside a utility room as chaos unfolded around him. Twelve years old, forced to make a life-or-death decision in seconds. While one child found a place to shelter, another never came home. The weight of that reality now hangs over an entire community — and especially over a father who can’t stop replaying those final moments in his mind.
Through unimaginable grief, he has chosen to speak out. His message is painfully simple: “Hold your kids tight.” Not tomorrow. Not later. Now.
He describes Kylie as bright, kind, and full of energy — a girl who loved her friends fiercely and never left the house without a smile. She had dreams, inside jokes with her brother, and a laugh that filled their home. In a single, senseless act of violence, those dreams were stolen.
Across Canada, families are grappling with the same terrifying question: how can something so devastating happen in a place meant to be safe? Vigils have filled the streets of Tumbler Ridge. Flowers line the sidewalks. Classmates cling to one another. Parents stand silently, holding their children a little closer than usual. But beyond the tears and candlelight, a father’s plea echoes louder than anything else. He doesn’t speak with anger. He speaks with urgency. He speaks as a parent who thought he had more time. Every morning drop-off. Every rushed goodbye. Every “see you after school.” They are not guarantees — they are privileges. As this small town mourns, the world is reminded of a fragile truth: life can change in an instant. And sometimes the most powerful words aren’t political or complicated. They are simply this — hug your children. Tell them you love them. Don’t assume you’ll get another chance. Because one father in Tumbler Ridge would give anything for just one more ordinary morning.