When Charlie Kate was born, her parents noticed a small reddish mark on the left side of her face. Doctors diagnosed it as an infantile hemangioma, often referred to as a “strawberry birthmark”—a common type of benign vascular tumor that appears in infancy. While many hemangiomas gradually shrink over time, Charlie’s grew rapidly during her first months, eventually covering much of her left eye and cheek.

For her mother, Katie Crenshaw, the most difficult part of the journey has not been the medical appointments or treatment—it has been the reactions from strangers. Everywhere they go, people often stare, ask intrusive questions, or make comments such as, “I hope it goes away,” or “She’d be so pretty if it weren’t for that.”

Rather than staying silent, Katie has chosen to use her family’s experience to promote kindness and awareness. She wants people to see beyond her daughter’s appearance and recognize the happy, healthy little girl she truly is.

“Hold the pity,” Katie has shared. “She’s perfect just the way she is.”

Charlie Kate’s hemangioma has required ongoing medical monitoring and treatment to help protect her vision and overall health. Like many children with facial hemangiomas, her care has involved specialists who carefully evaluate the birthmark’s growth and determine the most appropriate treatment. Fortunately, modern therapies have greatly improved outcomes, and many infantile hemangiomas become significantly smaller over time.

Despite the challenges, Charlie continues to thrive. Her family celebrates the same milestones every parent cherishes—her first smiles, first words, first steps, and playful personality. Katie hopes their story encourages people to replace curiosity and judgment with compassion and understanding.

Infantile hemangiomas affect approximately 4–5% of infants, making them the most common benign tumors in childhood. Although they can appear alarming, most are noncancerous and many gradually fade with age. In some cases, especially when they affect the eyes, nose, or airway, treatment may be necessary to prevent complications.

Today, Charlie Kate’s story has inspired thousands of families around the world. Her mother’s message is simple yet powerful: children should never be defined by a medical condition or physical difference. They deserve to be celebrated for their kindness, resilience, and unique personalities—not judged by their appearance.

Sources:

• Today.com – Interview with Katie Crenshaw about daughter Charlie Kate’s facial hemangioma.