“HE NEVER SHOULD HAVE DIED LIKE THIS…” — Family members are breaking their silence after 14-year-old Conroy tragically lost his life in the Calder Highway crash, but one haunting detail in the case is now sparking fierce debate nationwide… especially after reports surfaced of a heartbreaking message he allegedly sent just moments before the crash

Conroy was well known to police and had previously been granted bail for multiple offences.

His cousins, Dougie, 18, who was driving, and Deondre, 14, are both fighting for life after they were cut from the ute and airlifted to hospital.

Dougie has lost the lower part of his right leg and suffered broken ribs and a brain bleed, while his younger brother Deondre remains in ICU with serious brain injuries.

Police allege the ute was stolen from a hotel in Mildura on Friday night before it was involved in a fuel drive-off seven hours later.

Shocking footage also recently emerged of the group of teens hanging out of the windows of the swerving car moments before it hit a tree.

Their bodies were almost entirely outside the ute as friends filmed the stunt.

Conroy’s mother told 7News she doesn’t want her son’s death to be in vain.

‘We’ve tried so hard to keep Conroy on the straight and narrow and to keep him out of trouble,’ Chereeta Wightman said. ‘He was a fun-loving, outgoing, good-spirited kid.

‘(Dougie) will have to live with what he’s done, I feel for him. I feel for all of them.’

Aunty Maryanne Frost added: ‘Yeah they made the wrong choice, but people shouldn’t go judging them… if people actually knew these boys’ story and what they went through growing up, they would understand.’

They also warned other teens to think about their actions.

‘It just takes one little mistake and then your family’s suffering, and we gotta go through the pain of burying you,’ Ms Frost added.

In tributes posted online, Conroy’s family members described him as a ‘beautiful soul’ who loved helping look after their children and putting smiles on people’s faces.

‘I told you the only person in Mildura I had was you Conroy. I told you my babies had no one but you… I told you that no matter what I love you unconditionally. I told you I’ll hold you through thick and thin,’ one woman said.

Detective Sergeant Pendrick said detectives were trying to determine how fast the allegedly stolen car had been travelling.

‘There was certainly a high impact with the tree, there’s no doubt about that,’ he said.

‘We look at everything. We’ll look at speed, we’ll look at the road condition, we will look at the manner of driving.’

Reflecting on the tragedy, the detective said crashes like this were a reminder for young people to ‘know there are consequences for their actions’.

‘When you look at incidents like this that are totally devastating, you just plead with those kids that they’re not playing games, there are real consequences,’ he said.

Shadow police minister Brad Battin criticised Jacinta Allan’s Labor government hours after the crash, saying similar incidents were preventable if it took a tougher approach to youth crime.

‘We need to fix the justice system,’ he told the Herald Sun. ‘Releasing young offenders for stealing cars and having unlimited bail not only leaves the community less safe, but we will see more young people die.

‘What will it take for the premier to stand up and say enough is enough? Break bail, face jail. I am sick of a government that simply doesn’t care.’