Queens Dad Suspected in Wife’s Stabbing Death Came from Family with Dark, Violent Past — Brother Fatally Shot Their Father Years Ago

Astoria, Queens — The Queens father suspected of stabbing his wife to death in a gruesome murder-suicide came from a family with a tragic and violent history. Joseph Azzaretto, 33, was found hanging from a tree in Astoria Park early Tuesday, hours after he allegedly killed his wife, Mary Kate Golding, 34, in their nearby home.
Police say Azzaretto stabbed Golding before driving away from the scene. Chilling surveillance video captured him approaching a minivan near the couple’s residence in a seemingly nonchalant manner. He is believed to have confessed the killing in calls to family and friends shortly afterward.

Family’s Dark History
The case has taken on new layers with the revelation that Azzaretto’s younger brother, Nicholas Azzaretto, was involved in the fatal shooting of their father six years ago. The violent family pattern has shocked investigators and the community.
Golding, a TV set designer, leaves behind young children. The couple’s home became the scene of unimaginable tragedy, with neighbors and friends expressing disbelief.
This latest incident has renewed conversations about domestic violence, mental health, and intergenerational trauma. Support services are being offered to the surviving family members, particularly the children impacted by the loss of both parents.
The investigation remains active as authorities work to piece together the full timeline and circumstances.
Sources:
- New York Post